On Monday, August 11th, 2014, we lost Robin Williams.
He was a brilliant actor and comic…a man most of us grew up with. We knew him
as a funny guy, an alien, a genie, a nanny, an inspirational teacher, and so
much more. We also knew he struggled with depression, addiction, and possibly
bipolar disorder.
Collectively, we grieve for his loss. Williams had an uncanny
ability to make us smile. Even when playing more dramatic roles, he brought
light, laughter, and inspiration to our lives.
We grieve, too, for thousands of other people who have died by
suicide. Fathers, mothers, sisters, daughters, sons, brothers…suicide isn’t
just about the person who dies. Its painful ripples spread far and wide,
affecting everyone of us.
We believe every suicide death is preventable, that not another
person should die in desperation and alone. Those with behavioral health
challenges like Major Depressive Disorder, Bipolar Disorder,
and Schizophrenia possess suicide rates 10 to 15 times greater than the
general population. Yet, millions survive, and many find a way to thrive.
Recovery is possible!
The bitter irony of Williams’ death was the support he gave for
another disease that takes lives: cancer. Williams was a strong backer of St.
Jude’s Research Center and Stand Up to Cancer. He would visit cancer patients,
sometimes in their own homes, bringing joy into lives that would invariably be
cut short, just as Williams’ has.
The cancer prevention movement has been so effective in getting
people involved – in prevention, in fundraising, in advocacy. Now many people – whether or not they’ve been
directly affected by cancer – Stand Up in solidarity to help fight the battle.
They stand shoulder to shoulder with people who are fighting for their lives?
They stand to honor those who’ve passed with dignity. They got people like
Robin Williams to lean in, and say “I care. What can I do to help?” The suicide
prevention movement can learn a lot from the successes of the cancer prevention
movement.
How has the cancer prevention movement achieved these goals?
They did this by advancing science and promoting stories of hope and recovery.
Those who want to stand up for suicide prevention can do this too.
As Dr. Sean Maguire in the movie “Good Will Hunting,” Williams
counsels Damon’s Will Hunting on life, love, and grief before telling him,
“Your move, chief.”
Now it’s our move. Let’s honor William’s memory, and that of
every person who has died by suicide, by making suicide a thing of the past. What can you do to Stand Up for suicide
prevention?
- Reach out and ask others who may be going through difficult life
challenges, “Are you okay? What can I do to support you?” Let them know they
are not alone and that you can help them link to resources.
- Promote the National Suicide
Prevention Lifeline (800-273-8255) everywhere – schools, workplaces, faith
communities, neighborhoods
- Volunteer and participate in
suicide prevention work like community walks, town hall meetings, crisis line
support and more
- Donate to suicide prevention organizations
- Learn about the real facts about suicide and the strategies that have
been shown to prevent suicide
- Then bring others into the circle –
your healthcare providers, your employer, your educators, and so on. Elevate
the conversation and make suicide prevention a health and safety priority.
- Ask your health care plan and provider to join you
As a society we’ve stood up for so many other important things.
It’s time for us to stand up to suicide. When we all stand up and move together, we
create a movement. Together our voices can create significant change in
systems, in policy, in funding, and in the general view of suicide. We can restore
dignity and offer hope and empowerment and save lives.
#standup2suicide #zerosuicide #wayforward
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